I've never talked much about how I feel about this. She dances in a relatively tame bar - no lap dances, just bikini, etc.
Obviously I'd want her to do something else. But it's not like she is cheating on me - either physically or emotionally. Emotional cheating, if she liked someone else, to me is much worse.
In a way it is exciting, I won't lie. Knowing that all of those guys staring at her would like to get to know her better, while I already have the spoils of war, is nice. Strange? Perhaps. But it sure is exciting.
Anyway I've seen how people from a very different world than I live. That is life experience you just cannot replace. It is invaluable, and I don't regret it. I am better rounded and more mature after this. A little more morally disturbed, sure - but better for it!
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You are so naive to think she just puts on a bikini, does a few pole dances, and goes home. You have no idea what really goes on in those places and with the dancers.
I agree with that comment. Market forces would tell you that men who go to those kinds of clubs are looking for nudity and the works. If there's a strip club with nudity and lap dances in the same area as an alleged "bikini dancing" club, which do you think they'll go to? I think the bikinis are only part of the show.
Those guys who are staring at her, wanting to get to know her better? I'm sure they are, and for a lot less than the dough you're shelling out.
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